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Some good advice
We realize that this may be the first time you have ever considered meeting a woman by using a service such as ours. This section is intended to allow you to benefit from the experience of others. By interviewing numerous men and researching volumes of material, we have compiled a top-twenty list of hints that will prove beneficial in your research for a foreign woman. Even if you are an old hand at this, it's never too late to learn something new
1. Do Not Send Money!!!
Just like anywhere, there are honest people and there are dishonest people. The
point of your correspondence is to develop a special relationship with a foreign
woman, not to purchase one. We want you to be aware that you may contact women
who will ask you for money for one reason or another.
Remember it is a matter of pride for any honest Russian and Ukrainian woman that
no matter how badly off she may be financially, if she is truly interested in
you, she will NOT ask you for money. It is that simple.
3. Honesty is the best policy and lies are always discovered. Most of these women are highly educated and they are looking for sincere, honest men who will treat them with love and respect, please don't make the mistake of thinking that they are ignorant or that you can treat them badly, after all, this is why they do not want to marry many of the men from their own country. Treat her like a princess, and she will become your princess. Also remember a Russian or Ukrainian lady is very loyal and if you treat her right, your Russian wife will never leave you because once you are in her heart, you will stay there forever.
4. Remember when writing your letter that this woman's native language is not English. That doesn't mean she will not be able to understand your letter, but by keeping it simple you will have a much better chance of successfully communicating with her. Try to avoid using four- or five- syllable words; instead of impressing her, you will probably just confuse her.
5. Write to as many women as possible. By writing many women you greatly increase your chances of success!!! The more attractive a woman, the more letters she will receive so when writing to these women it is especially important to write to as many as possible
6. This information is there for a reason, you will be wasting your time as well as the lady's by responding to a woman whom you know you will not be compatible with.
7. Write in Russian if your recipient has difficulty translating English. Its important letters is fully understood, so if there's any doubt as to the English proficiency of the recipient, have the letter translated before sending.
8. We suggest that you register a separate email account (for example, at Hotmail) for this campaign, so you will be able to track the results, and also close it down when you have found your one and only. Any advertising campaign brings plenty of junk mail, and publishing your real email address is unwise.
9. Try to keep the initial letter fast-paced. You certainly don't want to be discussing things like marriage and what your children might look like in your first letter! You may want to tell her a little about yourself, where you were raised, and what schools you have attended. Write a little about your interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes. Basically, just write about things that you would normally talk about on a first date.
10. Make sure you ask
her plenty of questions about herself in your first letter. People like to know
that others are interested in them and their activities. By asking questions
about her she will think that you are interested in her as a person and she will
want to respond to you immediately.
11. You may find it useful to do some independent research on the country of origin of the woman you are interested in. Not only will it impress the woman, but it may save you from committing a gaffe. You must always remember that this woman was raised in a totally different culture than our own. Obviously, it is in your best interest to know as much as possible about that culture.
12. Here are some topics for use during telephone conversations. Ask everything about her and forget about yourself. Get as much info as possible.
What is your typical day like?
13. Be prepared to meet your ladies. Unless you are willing to make the journey to meet your chosen lady, there is no real point in writing to a lady, so consider this when you start writing to her. Letter writing is fine, up to a point, until you've got to know her. At some point you have to meet her and decide, or someone else will do it for you and you will have lost her.
Don't delay your visit to see her personally. The average time
between beginning of e-mail exchanging and the visit to see a lady is about 6
months. Remember that she joined a dating service, not a pen pal club. One visit
is worth hundreds of letters.
19. Be patient. This is an important process and the results of the decision that you make will be far reaching and long lasting. Take the time to correspond with many different women before committing to that special one. One of the key features of our service is that we are continuously updating our service with new women, thus giving you new choices. This is an important decisions that you will ever make, so please be patient, be thorough, and most of all, enjoy the process.
20. The last and probably most important tip of all is: These ladies dream about having a caring and loyal husband. They dream about having a happy and loving family with a secure future. These are the reasons why they leave their countries, friends and relatives behind. So don’t lose sight of the fact that it is morally very difficult for them to leave. They have a strong sense of family and place. Your Russian wife will need your help to feel she has made the right decision in leaving her home to find a new and better one.
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